Currently separated dating
His actions and responses are related to what he's doing, not so much to what you have said and done or are saying and doing.
It's not uncommon at all for the person in his shoes to look over the fence to what seems to be greener grass, but the majority of the time as soon as they jump over the fence, the guilt, confusion, and inability to make any decisions at all hits and does NOT let up, except for occasional moments only, just until this person glances back at reality, which they are avoiding. He is sufferring most from guilt and nothing you can do can fix his inward real self, because it's not really about you; it's about him, his marriage and family, and what it all really means to him in the secret places of his own heart and mind.
And boom as soon as I gave into an intimate relationship he shut down.
Every month he has his days he won't even speak to me or look at me.
Ultimately I can not view him as a partner, but we must stick to being friends...
I won't run from him bc I care for him as a friend above all else.
Well here I am one yr later and we have been seeing each other for the past 3 months...
We were awesome friends, we talked about everything.
He even told me he doesn't see us together, that he doesn't know what is ahead...
Once he or more than likely the wife makes a move towards separation - a new union begins.
That's how it usually works for the woman who becomes "just a friend" with a married man having difficulties at home.
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